GoOd GrL asked:
I have been lied to, abused and humiliated by the people who were suppose to care..since the day I was born! I have managed to obtain a “normal” relationship and get married, and have 4 beautiful, wonderful children. But in the back of my head I trust no-one……I am constantly listening for clues and always on gaurd. Is there any way I will ever feel comfortable, I know my husband and children would never “Plot to hurt me” but it is always in my mind. Will I ever have full trust again, or have my parents and grandmother (on my fathers sid) ruined me
Ka Aragoni
I have been lied to, abused and humiliated by the people who were suppose to care..since the day I was born! I have managed to obtain a “normal” relationship and get married, and have 4 beautiful, wonderful children. But in the back of my head I trust no-one……I am constantly listening for clues and always on gaurd. Is there any way I will ever feel comfortable, I know my husband and children would never “Plot to hurt me” but it is always in my mind. Will I ever have full trust again, or have my parents and grandmother (on my fathers sid) ruined me
Ka Aragoni
The faith and now will continue to stay strong keep the faith and now will eventually start to fade they never really disappear but you are but trust one person little more okay take care tess.
The back of me we cant let them win melanie if we have been there dont then our abusers have to work on them.
Sorry to hear that things have been so bad for you.
Only suggestion I have is to seek out some counseling to help you identify and grieve those people in your life who did not fulfill their roles in your life they were supposed to.
I wish you the best.
trust no one, good rule.