How many of you are survivors of abuse, and no longer have contact with your family because you refused to PRETEND the abuse never happened, or could not heal around family members who PROTECTED the abuser?
Have you had family members tell you they would DENY the abuse if it came up, or who flat out LIED to others for the purpose of discrediting you, to once again protect the abuser who was their spouse, sibling, child, ect? It’s the ultimate betrayal to have an entire family deny your abuse knowing you were the victim.
I’ve forgiven so that I can move on with my life, and heal my trust issues and fears of relationships, but would still like to hear from other survivors.
The last time I spoke with my mom about the abuse, was when she went on and on about how fortunate we were that my uncle took care of us after my mom found the courage to leave my abusive dad. After 10 minutes of hearing her praise him, I said mom, have you forgotten the abuse, and she says to me, that’s in the past, stop being a trouble maker and get over it. I had to accept, that some relationships are too far gone to be healed, and it’s best to move on and let God handle things in his way.
Pablo Warhola
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