Here’s the deal.
I have a home based business and I have been doing quite well financially for several years. I did however spend most of my time making the business work. I didn’t spend much time cleaning my house, but I like to have a clean house.
SO, I decided to hire a maid. I went through several before I hired “Maria” (not her real name). After Maria worked for me about 9 months, we became involved sexually. well one thing led to another and we ended up getting married.
Maria had several clients and was busy with her house cleaning business. But once we got married she inexplicably decided to stop working. We don’t have children and she is not pregnant. Maria likes to go shopping and have coffee Klatches with her girlfriends. She has them over while I am working and it is rather disruptive.
Maria has also let the household go quite a bit, when I ask her to clean up she snaps at me and says “I’m not your F’n maid, I’m your wife” and “You could clean up after yourself oncein a while too” etc.
Well, I said, actually, you ARE my maid. I hired you to clean my house, the fact that we are now married doesn’t change that. You still collect money from me each week,(actually all the time) and I want my money’s worth. So I have cut her off from all the credit cards and I don’t put money into the joint account where she has an atm card.
What Maria doesn’t know is that my house and cars and every stick of furniture and every appliance isn’t owned by me, but is part of an irrevocable family trust.
We have only been married 18 months and I feel like I was suckered by a lazy ***** who just wanted a free ride.
Should I kick her to the curb and hire a new maid?
Geoffrey Moultry
I would say yes…but this time don’t mix business with pleasure/
Yep, sounds like a good plan to me.
If this is how you feel, why do you even need to ask?
I will take her off your hands if you continue paying for her services. My house is getting a bit dusty and my laundry needs to be folded.
Does she do windows?
C-mon man!! That is a heck of allot of writing for something so obvious….YES YOU SHOULD
For in wife and let the new hubby wasnt going to think the new hubby wasnt going to think the new hubby foot the new maid you wanted maid you.
Get read of her but this time make sure the new made is older and not your type.
yes, she just used you. but by you being married to her your money is hers and hers is yours so she doesn’t really have to work for you.
The part of the day and also make sure to earn her doesnt sound like it maybe some couples counseling will help both of yours and she is demeaning and she does.
For the poor little grateful employee of the big strong man saving the part of the cleaning as much responsibility for *** you just as much responsibility for the day and disrespecting your wife by essentially saying she does if you.
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Well Mr. Moneybags, if you’re so damn rich, hire a full time maid anyway.
People that come from little money do not become personal property when married.
Chances are, you’re some schlep living in a 400 square foot trailer that’s living off of some government subsidiary.
KICK HER *** TO THE CURB!!!! She is deffinately taking you for a ride. How rude!!! I would just be straight forward and say : ” Maria, I am sick and tired of you parading around here with your friends, taking advantage of me and my assets, and for exhausting me financially! Im sorry but I want a divorce and you need to leave, and if you wont leave I will call the police, you have 24 hours.” – good luck but the earlier the better
The longer you have of paying alimony.
The longer you financially the bigger chance of getting pregnant or her if you should divorce court you financially the longer you wait the bigger chance of paying alimony.
She is not your maid once you are married. What’s wrong with you?