ABHI B asked:
i am a guy currently staying far from my joint family for studies. it goes like firstly..my dad and uncle always doubt me that i am into bad stuffs like drinking, smoking but i am not actually and reason why they think like that is because my phone remains switched off for most of the times unintentionally (hardly charge my phone). Secondly, In spite of being rich, They keep reminding me that earning money is very tough job and they keep cursing me every time because my expenditure is kinda medium not that high as they perceive and that too i spend only when me and my friends go out for dinner, movies and all since this is my last year of college so i wish to enjoy. its not like that i don’t understand their efforts to earn money. Specially, my uncle who always shouts at me that i spend a lot and he crosses the limits by ordering me to prepare daily expenditure account, it really feels embarrassed in spite of trying convincing them that i don’t spend as much as they perceive and my goodness is that i never argue with my family, i just agree to their queries and say sorry.
i am a guy currently staying far from my joint family for studies. it goes like firstly..my dad and uncle always doubt me that i am into bad stuffs like drinking, smoking but i am not actually and reason why they think like that is because my phone remains switched off for most of the times unintentionally (hardly charge my phone). Secondly, In spite of being rich, They keep reminding me that earning money is very tough job and they keep cursing me every time because my expenditure is kinda medium not that high as they perceive and that too i spend only when me and my friends go out for dinner, movies and all since this is my last year of college so i wish to enjoy. its not like that i don’t understand their efforts to earn money. Specially, my uncle who always shouts at me that i spend a lot and he crosses the limits by ordering me to prepare daily expenditure account, it really feels embarrassed in spite of trying convincing them that i don’t spend as much as they perceive and my goodness is that i never argue with my family, i just agree to their queries and say sorry.
so just help me out where i am wrong or i am right in your views because coming days are really bad for me and i need to sort this out
Richie Feauto
Personally I think you are completely right in your opioions I guess family will never accpet who you are harsh but ture:-(
The only thing know that people around you may cause and bring joy back into your life talk to say know that this has to me any time.