neverbroken83 asked:
My family back when I was a kid, elementary and middle school age, withheld a lot of information from me that could have changed my life and 1 thing did. The main thing was they didn’t tell me that my mom had cancer, they said they didn’t tell me to protect me cause I was in middle school, but I still feel as though I should have known the truth. The person who told me was my mom’s best friend, and she only told me after it had been declared terminal. ( lived w/ g’parents)By that time I didn’t have the time to adjust and say a proper goodbye before she passed away. I was so angry for such a long time and did get counseling for it. The other thing is, they kept half my family secret from me. My parents split when I was a baby and my dad wasn’t in my life, I didn’t know for a long time that he’d been married before my mom and I had an older sis and bro, or that he remarried again and I had a younger bro. My family knew it tho, and again didn’t tell me. Now it’s hard for me to trust them
I honestly do feel bad for not fully trusting my family and questioning everything they tell me, yet I just can’t bring myself to. I’m 25 now and most of this happened between the ages of 11-16. I know it would most likely be best to just let it go, and accept they were trying to do what they thought was in my best interest, but I just can’t. They kept some really serious stuff from me. things I would have liked to have known about and taken the time to adjust to. Please tell me, how can I give them the trust I so want to again? Does any of this make sense at all? Help?!
Bianca Briere
My family back when I was a kid, elementary and middle school age, withheld a lot of information from me that could have changed my life and 1 thing did. The main thing was they didn’t tell me that my mom had cancer, they said they didn’t tell me to protect me cause I was in middle school, but I still feel as though I should have known the truth. The person who told me was my mom’s best friend, and she only told me after it had been declared terminal. ( lived w/ g’parents)By that time I didn’t have the time to adjust and say a proper goodbye before she passed away. I was so angry for such a long time and did get counseling for it. The other thing is, they kept half my family secret from me. My parents split when I was a baby and my dad wasn’t in my life, I didn’t know for a long time that he’d been married before my mom and I had an older sis and bro, or that he remarried again and I had a younger bro. My family knew it tho, and again didn’t tell me. Now it’s hard for me to trust them
I honestly do feel bad for not fully trusting my family and questioning everything they tell me, yet I just can’t bring myself to. I’m 25 now and most of this happened between the ages of 11-16. I know it would most likely be best to just let it go, and accept they were trying to do what they thought was in my best interest, but I just can’t. They kept some really serious stuff from me. things I would have liked to have known about and taken the time to adjust to. Please tell me, how can I give them the trust I so want to again? Does any of this make sense at all? Help?!
Bianca Briere
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