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I’ve spent 10 years dating and every man that I’ve dated has either cheated on me, lied to me, stolen possessions of mine, or just plain disrespected me. My most recent ex cheated on me and lied about the whole affair while I was pregnant. I had to have an abortion because of an underlying health problem and he wouldn’t even come to my doctor’s appointment with me when I needed someone to drive me home. After he finally admitted to the affair I left him and went to visit a good friend of mine for a few days. When I met him at the airport it was love at first sight. I had no intention of there being any romantic feelings between us, but it just happened. We spent 5 amazing days together, and I finally felt like not only did I find “the one” but I also found myself. I had to leave him and fly home, but we’ve spent every day talking, and after a month he’s asked me to marry him. I’ve never been happier in my whole life. I’m not the kind of person to ever act on such impulses but I just know this is right.
However now my family doesn’t support our engagement. My own sister even told my ex and he called me screaming at me wondering what I was thinking. My sister is a judgmental person in general and I didn’t think she’d be very supportive, but now I’m wondering what the rest of my family will think. Close friends of mine are very supportive, and so are my fiance’s siblings, but we haven’t told our parent’s yet. I know this is all moving very fast, but I’m just wondering how I can go about winning my families trust and support with my decision. I don’t expect my family or his to pay for our wedding or anything like that either. This is our decision and I just want their support.
Thank you for all the great suggestions and input. My fiance and I have no plans to run off and get married anytime soon, so we decided after further talking that we’re going to attend premarital classes and counseling to assure our families we’re not making any hasty decisions. I know they are just worried about our future and well being. We are going to show them there’s no rush to get married but we’re committed to this decision and want to create a solid foundation for our marriage. Thank you again for your advice.
Randell Soltys
I feel guilty because I want to experience love in my life.
When you are a kid and innocent,everybody loves you dearly and admires you truelly,but when you grow up and your world gets wild with love ,you feel that everybody wanted to turn back on you,even your own family.That s why I have never dared to tell anybody what I think in my mind.
I want to travell to meet my boyfriend for the Easther day,but my grandmother promised me not to see me again.
And If I don t go,I will break the heart of my love who has bought for me two tickets to Denmark.
My grandma is very important for me..but I want to have my own joyfull time with the one who is loyal to me too.
My love never hurts me,never treat me badly,never gets mad at me,when I was out of temper.
He is not rich,but he promised me to make me happy when he graduated at the university after 2 years.and I am proud of him because he won the first prize of Chess.but my mother found him too clever!
What must I do?
Silvana Clearman