Archive for the ‘Marriage & Divorce’ Category
Belen asked:
Hi, my husband and I are married 7 months, before we get married we were agree to start a family, have a baby, we were trying but I got an hormonal problem so I couldn’t get pregnant. After I went to the doctor He suggested me to take birth control, because He wanted to wait.
I don’t understand what’s is going on, I mean, i want a family, but he seems he wants to wait, now he is saying that he is going to leave his job in 1 year and 3 months (military)and after that he wants to travel the world. Before we married I told him that I was looking for stability because I have been moving alot, I mean 6 times in 4 years, so I just want to settle somewhere have a family and live a normal life. When he says thoose things just scared me because it’s not the stability that i want.
Plus all this we have been fighting alot, and very nasty, to the point that sometimes I want to leave. I moved 1.400 milles after I married him, I moved to another state to be with him, I left everything, my life, my job (a good job) my friends, everything just to be with him, now I feel betrayed, I feel He lied to me, saying that we were going to have a kind of life that we are no having. I don’t know what to do, everytime that I try to talk to him He gets mad o his answer is ” I don’t know what you are talking about” .
I don’t know if the reason for his new behavor is that we are having trust issues, He thinks that I cheat on him when we were bf and gf because He found a text msg from a friend that wanted to be picked up, I never went to pick him up, and He was just a friend, I mean, I never cheat on him, He doesnt believe me, He keeps bringing the topic over and over, to the point I get mad now everytime that he brings it. He has trust issues of past relationships, how can I make him understand that there is good people or bad people in this world, I have been cheated before, I know what is that horrible feeling.
I don’t know what to do, I was married before, I dont feel ready for another divorce, but my life is not happy in this way, I love him very much, but what is the point that this is going to get?
Thanks for your help.
Van Forst
Hi, my husband and I are married 7 months, before we get married we were agree to start a family, have a baby, we were trying but I got an hormonal problem so I couldn’t get pregnant. After I went to the doctor He suggested me to take birth control, because He wanted to wait.
I don’t understand what’s is going on, I mean, i want a family, but he seems he wants to wait, now he is saying that he is going to leave his job in 1 year and 3 months (military)and after that he wants to travel the world. Before we married I told him that I was looking for stability because I have been moving alot, I mean 6 times in 4 years, so I just want to settle somewhere have a family and live a normal life. When he says thoose things just scared me because it’s not the stability that i want.
Plus all this we have been fighting alot, and very nasty, to the point that sometimes I want to leave. I moved 1.400 milles after I married him, I moved to another state to be with him, I left everything, my life, my job (a good job) my friends, everything just to be with him, now I feel betrayed, I feel He lied to me, saying that we were going to have a kind of life that we are no having. I don’t know what to do, everytime that I try to talk to him He gets mad o his answer is ” I don’t know what you are talking about” .
I don’t know if the reason for his new behavor is that we are having trust issues, He thinks that I cheat on him when we were bf and gf because He found a text msg from a friend that wanted to be picked up, I never went to pick him up, and He was just a friend, I mean, I never cheat on him, He doesnt believe me, He keeps bringing the topic over and over, to the point I get mad now everytime that he brings it. He has trust issues of past relationships, how can I make him understand that there is good people or bad people in this world, I have been cheated before, I know what is that horrible feeling.
I don’t know what to do, I was married before, I dont feel ready for another divorce, but my life is not happy in this way, I love him very much, but what is the point that this is going to get?
Thanks for your help.
Van Forst
Debbie asked:
My Friend has been marryed for 15 years. He has a family trust from a earler marrage. He is holding that trust above her head. Does she not have anything (the home that she lives in that they live in or ?). Can they not buy a car with out the trust permishion ex.
Katelyn Posik
My Friend has been marryed for 15 years. He has a family trust from a earler marrage. He is holding that trust above her head. Does she not have anything (the home that she lives in that they live in or ?). Can they not buy a car with out the trust permishion ex.
Katelyn Posik
Whitney C asked:
For those that don’t know..a blended family is when the children are from a previous relationship and not biologically that of the spouse.
Maegan Harbinson
For those that don’t know..a blended family is when the children are from a previous relationship and not biologically that of the spouse.
Maegan Harbinson
SNAKEDOG asked:
I trust my husaband with my very life! I can tell him everything! He is my world and I put my complete trust in him! The best husband in the world is a military man, my husband David!
Dana
I trust my husaband with my very life! I can tell him everything! He is my world and I put my complete trust in him! The best husband in the world is a military man, my husband David!
Dana
Great Daddy asked:
See My wife Family is money Hungry and I’m Scared paying her money for support the child.But It happen alot when she work her parents got the money.So Is there a way that I know she using the money on my daughter not her family.Because back in Nov,She wrote a check to her mother for 4,660.00 but its a long Story but sad to my Daughter,But Iam a guy will pay for my daughter for child support. I miss my Little girl its been over a Month.
We have court in Feb but I was getting advice on this but paying for child support it should go to the child not the family so why pay for something that will not help the child.
I take her to court if she holdout letting me see her.But my wife is using her as pawn agains me
Jeanna Bandley
See My wife Family is money Hungry and I’m Scared paying her money for support the child.But It happen alot when she work her parents got the money.So Is there a way that I know she using the money on my daughter not her family.Because back in Nov,She wrote a check to her mother for 4,660.00 but its a long Story but sad to my Daughter,But Iam a guy will pay for my daughter for child support. I miss my Little girl its been over a Month.
We have court in Feb but I was getting advice on this but paying for child support it should go to the child not the family so why pay for something that will not help the child.
I take her to court if she holdout letting me see her.But my wife is using her as pawn agains me
Jeanna Bandley
Me asked:
i have some friends but i have a huge family and id rather hang out with family and trust family.
Laraine Paree
i have some friends but i have a huge family and id rather hang out with family and trust family.
Laraine Paree
Al asked:
The family trust’s trustor’s are wife and husband. Are these 500 shares now COMMUNITY PROPERTY? or does it remain separate property?
Mistie Searcy
The family trust’s trustor’s are wife and husband. Are these 500 shares now COMMUNITY PROPERTY? or does it remain separate property?
Mistie Searcy
Bones Man asked:
The ex-wife is not helping with the kids, she is running from the law, She stole my identity by giving my personal info to her boyfriend. The boyfriend used it when he went to jail and got bailed out, speeding tickets.She bailed him out saying he was me.Her family helps her out by giving her money, Knew she was cheating on me long before we split up. Her family does everything for my daughter and very little for my son. Like take her for shopping, stay overs. One actually told me they do for my daughter so it frees up my money to do for my son.
The ex-wife is not helping with the kids, she is running from the law, She stole my identity by giving my personal info to her boyfriend. The boyfriend used it when he went to jail and got bailed out, speeding tickets.She bailed him out saying he was me.Her family helps her out by giving her money, Knew she was cheating on me long before we split up. Her family does everything for my daughter and very little for my son. Like take her for shopping, stay overs. One actually told me they do for my daughter so it frees up my money to do for my son.
Her father come by yesterday and said her boyfriend left her and she wants to start doing right. He asked me to drop all charges so she can. I told him “Hell No!” What she has done is unforgivable.
I am so tied of her and her families stuff, I can’t trust anything they say and I don’t want my kids around them because of it. Of course my daughter does not understand this now. She will in the future. What would you do? Try to rebuild a trust?
My mother-in-law only wants to take my daughter for the summer coming up and said they will take my son for a week. I personally don’t want my kids going for more than a weekend.
Right now, I have stopped their visitation with the kids. due to the recent events
the kids have perfect attendance in school and are honor students. I also have them in sports where I have gotten involved with coaching them.
Angella Kilmer
Joe mama asked:
how would a girl from foster home for the past 17 years(she is 20 years old) value relationship and love and trust?
Efren Kretsinger
how would a girl from foster home for the past 17 years(she is 20 years old) value relationship and love and trust?
Efren Kretsinger
AM asked:
I have been with my boyfriend/ fiance for 18 months now. We have a few issue that are MAJOR. I want to deal with them and fix them before we move ahead—so we can move ahead so to speak. I want to overcome these trust issues I have with him and his family means to absolute world to him. They do not like me and I do not like them. I want to go to couseling but he says if we go to couseling before were even married–We have failed. That that should mean we shouldn’t even be getting married if we need help already. I think it will help us. I think most couples should go to couseling before they marry. He just says “the boat is shunk before it has even left the harbour”. I cannot get through to him with “our issue” and I know we need a mediator. He wants me to move to the state AND city where ALL his family lives. I can’t even stand it there for more than a few hours when we do visit. His mother is the head of the family and CONTROLS everything and everyone. My fiance is alot older then me he’s 46 and I cannot explain to him w/out getting into a huge fight that why can’t we have our own life and have “our own family”? He gets irate and on the defense….I need help………..
Glenn Grich
I have been with my boyfriend/ fiance for 18 months now. We have a few issue that are MAJOR. I want to deal with them and fix them before we move ahead—so we can move ahead so to speak. I want to overcome these trust issues I have with him and his family means to absolute world to him. They do not like me and I do not like them. I want to go to couseling but he says if we go to couseling before were even married–We have failed. That that should mean we shouldn’t even be getting married if we need help already. I think it will help us. I think most couples should go to couseling before they marry. He just says “the boat is shunk before it has even left the harbour”. I cannot get through to him with “our issue” and I know we need a mediator. He wants me to move to the state AND city where ALL his family lives. I can’t even stand it there for more than a few hours when we do visit. His mother is the head of the family and CONTROLS everything and everyone. My fiance is alot older then me he’s 46 and I cannot explain to him w/out getting into a huge fight that why can’t we have our own life and have “our own family”? He gets irate and on the defense….I need help………..
Glenn Grich