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i have problems with parent interference i cheated once while my husband was incarcerated and told him about it trying to start things out right in our marriage of two years he was incarcerated the first year and has been home for 7 months his parents and other family members he listens to but not me it’s out of control and now there’s hurt and no respect in our relationship we have know communication he never wants to talk things out and he’s no longer home he moved back home with his parents
Eula Jefcoat
My problem kinda goes like this.
I have an M.B.A, I come from an educated family.
My wife went to community college for one year and dropped out.
I have stayed in shape over the years and my wife has let herself go ( by gaining 40 lbs in a short time).
We live in a home that belongs to my family (it’s in an irrevocable family trust and I am the trustee).
My wife has restited all of my loving attempts to help her with her weight problem and other issues.
I have spent tons of money on cooking lessons for her, gym memberships, personal trainers, diet pills, Doctors etc.. she refuses to get into shape. I find her completely unatractive now and I have a hard time hiding it.
THis has been going on for 4 years now, I am at the end of my rope,actually have been for a while.
I actually had to get a prescription for viagra just to be able to have *** with her. I thought I had ED, but found out later (with my mistress) that I don’t need viagra…
I want to move my wife out to our summer cottage so I don’t have to hide my affections for my personal asistant any longer ( my girlfriend).
Previous attempts to get advice here have been unfruitful . It seems everyone thinks I am a lout for cheating on my wife, But I never cheated on her until she refused all efforts by me to help her to change her unatractiveness so that we could get back to having a normal relationship. I find that she absolutely is to blame for my affair and drove me to it by refusing to be attentive to my needs as her husband despite my loving attempts to correct her behaviour.
Sometimes I think my mother was right when she told me before we got married that “She’s no good for you, she’s from a different class of people” I hated hearing that years ago, now I am starting to believe it…
Your thoughts?
Perry
Here’s the deal.
I have a home based business and I have been doing quite well financially for several years. I did however spend most of my time making the business work. I didn’t spend much time cleaning my house, but I like to have a clean house.
SO, I decided to hire a maid. I went through several before I hired “Maria” (not her real name). After Maria worked for me about 9 months, we became involved sexually. well one thing led to another and we ended up getting married.
Maria had several clients and was busy with her house cleaning business. But once we got married she inexplicably decided to stop working. We don’t have children and she is not pregnant. Maria likes to go shopping and have coffee Klatches with her girlfriends. She has them over while I am working and it is rather disruptive.
Maria has also let the household go quite a bit, when I ask her to clean up she snaps at me and says “I’m not your F’n maid, I’m your wife” and “You could clean up after yourself oncein a while too” etc.
Well, I said, actually, you ARE my maid. I hired you to clean my house, the fact that we are now married doesn’t change that. You still collect money from me each week,(actually all the time) and I want my money’s worth. So I have cut her off from all the credit cards and I don’t put money into the joint account where she has an atm card.
What Maria doesn’t know is that my house and cars and every stick of furniture and every appliance isn’t owned by me, but is part of an irrevocable family trust.
We have only been married 18 months and I feel like I was suckered by a lazy ***** who just wanted a free ride.
Should I kick her to the curb and hire a new maid?
Geoffrey Moultry
my husbands family are always in touch with him and get his mony for any reason and he never let them down.he is so sensitive and they make him feel pity for them and give them mony .i told him so much but he cant get it.he trust them soo much.
Hans Tanenbaum
our marriage? We have just started a family and i know this is a crucial time in our marriage, and all i want is to regain her trust
Elnora Popescu
I hope all of you have a wonderful day, with your family there with you, showing you how much they love, and appreciate all you do. My Mother died 16 years ago today, and my ex wife died this year, so it’s not a real happy time for my family….I trust yours will be different. “The hand that rocks the cradle, rules the world”, is what I believe…Happy Mother’s Day, again…may it be all you need, and want!
Cherelle Fahrenkrug
I’m 23 years old & I’m engaged to a GREAT man who I love very much. We’ve been engaged for about a year now, he is older than me (30) we really love for each other! We get along great & share alot of things in common. Our wedding day is in a few months so we started discussing prenups. I don’t want one! My fiance’ is a investment banker at his father’s company, he didn’t want one at first either but I think his family is telling him to get one. I feel like if he truly loves me than we shouldn’t have one, i am not trying to make this into a big issue but I think that his family is starting to dislike me. I am not a gold digger or a bad person. His family is treating me different & I’m mad at my fiance. Am i wrong? How should i go about getting his family to like me again? I don’t want them to think i am a bad person! Should i drop the prenup issue? I stand firmly behind the fact that I don’t one..It’s complicated.
thx for the advice! this is my 1st time on yah. answers =}
Oh & his sister has told me that their mother has begged & pleaded w/ my fiance’ to cut our engagement off! It hurts my feelings because she has always been kinda funny acting towards me. Like a few weeks ago we went to their house for dinner, his mother started talking about how it’s important for a woman to have her own career & not rely on a man. I think she was referring to me because she said it in a rude tone & was kinda glancing at me.
Hsiu Motonaga
what is it like to have a husband you trust and can depend on and to be raising a family together, your kids? to be truly happy with no worries?
Alia Jach
My husband cheated on me many times and I stay bc of the kids and reputation of family. I play a happy marriage with him in front of kids and our friends when I really fell misurable. He swore with me will never do it again but I feel very difficult to trust in him again.
Eusebio Carlsley
My ex has receives income from a family trust fund, which I believe is set up as a “discretionary fund”. My attorney tells me that this counts as “income” and I am entitled to this money in the form of child support. The problem is that if I take him to court, the family will stop paying him, while there is litigation..ie: showing that he is NOT in fact receiving money.
Meanwhile, he is living large and I am gettting a small pittance in the way of chidl support. Any advice??
Margaret