Archive for the ‘Family’ Category
Chapis asked:
I have been with my husband for 4 years married 2 years. I have had a very difficult time since our wedding day, first she hid all the invites so my reception was empty and it ruined my day. Then about a week after our wedding we were living in her home and she came into our room after I told her not to because she wanted to use my husbands fax for her other son. When it didn’t work she got on the phone with the son and told him everything in the room was a piece of **** everything (I was in there). I then to get rid of her called my husband who had left for work and asked him if the machine was plugged in and how to use it it was and while there I told him what was going on and that I was going to my mothers. When he got home I was so upset and told him he promised me that if something happened where she over stepped our boundaries that we would move out and leave her alone he told me although he promised he couldn’t leave her alone and that I should try to understand her not being able to change and change. A couple of months after that when I stayed of course I had a conversation with her about a friend at work who was fired, I usually would have these when I came home with my mom but since she was there I decided this could be something we bond with to get over the last tiff. I advised her she was fired because she was missing work a lot and told her the reason was because her mother was sick and she was going to a different state like a 8 hour drive because her mother didn’t want to move here. I explained I felt really bad because she worked really hard to get the position she had, go to school, maintain her grades while still working part time and her mom didn’t care about it. She then told me that my husband was supposed to take care of her, and I was thrown off because we were not talking about that. She explained like if your parents got sick either of them your younger sister would take care of them because you are married. I was completely upset and said “no there is 3 of us and we are all responsible for taking care of them. I maybe married however if they get sick there is no reason that I can not be there for them as much as my brother and sister”. She then said that it was my husbands responsibility to be with her always and that all he had was hers and if she decided to she would take it all from him. This naturally upset me and i decided that I would not help my husband out financially and told him that and the discussion we had. A couple of days later he was upset with me when asking him why he said because someone told him I told his mother that day that we were going to kick her out of her home and leave her alone to die. When I figured out it was his “nosy friend” that said this I was naturally upset especially because he made me go and confront his mother to prove I didn’t say that. I did not want to face her not because I was scared but because I was so hurt that he believed his friend and mother more than me to the point that I had to prove I told the truth. After I confronted her and proved that she was lying we got into a pretty loud match where she just kept repeating my husbands name continually and at one point I was so upset that she would not acknowledge what she said that I pointed my finger in her face. At this point again he told me not to yell at her or point at her, I was so upset that I took my rings and threw them at him. After this she came and apologized for lying and even then when I asked him to move out he wouldn’t do it. I felt so betrayed again like I was alone. After that time he finally asked her to leave and moved us out to our own home however I can not seem to get over that and am constantly thinking that he is lying to me when it comes to his family because although he did stand up for me the third time I never know if he will again. Help please.
Dewitt Kirkpatrick
I have been with my husband for 4 years married 2 years. I have had a very difficult time since our wedding day, first she hid all the invites so my reception was empty and it ruined my day. Then about a week after our wedding we were living in her home and she came into our room after I told her not to because she wanted to use my husbands fax for her other son. When it didn’t work she got on the phone with the son and told him everything in the room was a piece of **** everything (I was in there). I then to get rid of her called my husband who had left for work and asked him if the machine was plugged in and how to use it it was and while there I told him what was going on and that I was going to my mothers. When he got home I was so upset and told him he promised me that if something happened where she over stepped our boundaries that we would move out and leave her alone he told me although he promised he couldn’t leave her alone and that I should try to understand her not being able to change and change. A couple of months after that when I stayed of course I had a conversation with her about a friend at work who was fired, I usually would have these when I came home with my mom but since she was there I decided this could be something we bond with to get over the last tiff. I advised her she was fired because she was missing work a lot and told her the reason was because her mother was sick and she was going to a different state like a 8 hour drive because her mother didn’t want to move here. I explained I felt really bad because she worked really hard to get the position she had, go to school, maintain her grades while still working part time and her mom didn’t care about it. She then told me that my husband was supposed to take care of her, and I was thrown off because we were not talking about that. She explained like if your parents got sick either of them your younger sister would take care of them because you are married. I was completely upset and said “no there is 3 of us and we are all responsible for taking care of them. I maybe married however if they get sick there is no reason that I can not be there for them as much as my brother and sister”. She then said that it was my husbands responsibility to be with her always and that all he had was hers and if she decided to she would take it all from him. This naturally upset me and i decided that I would not help my husband out financially and told him that and the discussion we had. A couple of days later he was upset with me when asking him why he said because someone told him I told his mother that day that we were going to kick her out of her home and leave her alone to die. When I figured out it was his “nosy friend” that said this I was naturally upset especially because he made me go and confront his mother to prove I didn’t say that. I did not want to face her not because I was scared but because I was so hurt that he believed his friend and mother more than me to the point that I had to prove I told the truth. After I confronted her and proved that she was lying we got into a pretty loud match where she just kept repeating my husbands name continually and at one point I was so upset that she would not acknowledge what she said that I pointed my finger in her face. At this point again he told me not to yell at her or point at her, I was so upset that I took my rings and threw them at him. After this she came and apologized for lying and even then when I asked him to move out he wouldn’t do it. I felt so betrayed again like I was alone. After that time he finally asked her to leave and moved us out to our own home however I can not seem to get over that and am constantly thinking that he is lying to me when it comes to his family because although he did stand up for me the third time I never know if he will again. Help please.
Dewitt Kirkpatrick
Thorny asked:
& I have a college degree, & I’m seen as a retarded nerd? My family members do lots of illegal things, & they don’t want anything to do with me because I report them. So they figure they’re “punishing” me by not telling me their “criminal secrets”. I feel very bad about this. I mean, why should starving & neglecting your kids, carrying guns, doing drugs, robbing banks, stealing, pedophilia, etc. be a secret?
& I have a college degree, & I’m seen as a retarded nerd? My family members do lots of illegal things, & they don’t want anything to do with me because I report them. So they figure they’re “punishing” me by not telling me their “criminal secrets”. I feel very bad about this. I mean, why should starving & neglecting your kids, carrying guns, doing drugs, robbing banks, stealing, pedophilia, etc. be a secret?
They’re reversing it & making ME out of the wrongdoer! This has me depressed. What advice do you have?
Judson Shick
Beautiful_Disaster asked:
i live witha drug addcited mom..she recovering now but is only 1 month clean..I **** it beacuse she is the one unforuntly the one who is in charge of our family..and she tends to make allicances with everyone in the house..i can’t explain it she could be maniupliate.
i live witha drug addcited mom..she recovering now but is only 1 month clean..I **** it beacuse she is the one unforuntly the one who is in charge of our family..and she tends to make allicances with everyone in the house..i can’t explain it she could be maniupliate.
anyway,the reaon why i post htis question is because i ve noticed that my mom is tryign to put as much negative attention on me as she can, for example today she offred me so alchol that she had, a i refused it and told her that i will never expect anythign liek that from her, than she said plz, your the curious one..then i told her why dont you ask stephanie (my older sister) if she wants..and she said cuz she not as curios as you..
If anythign my sister has drank already, & has probally had sex, yet she dyign for me to ethier get pregent or start doing drugs. why is she drawing conclusions about me?
she even says am seeky, because i tend come out of no where and sayi want to jog otuside, (when i dont do this that often) to do something am not suppoesed to do..when i ask her what she talking about she stays quiet.
she always covers for my sister but it mainly bcuz she has pitty and my sister a very good liar..very persuive..my mom also knows that i dont trust her, so in turn she does’nt trust me…
Booker Danuser
David asked:
Ok i recently founded out that my cousin had a boyfriend i showed my mom and i told her not to tell nobody and she actually told my grandma and she asked her and she came up to my mom and yelled at me and i am very mad at my mom atm what should i do
Re:You don’t state your cousins age but maybe that has something to do with your mom telling your grandma. Your cousin may be to young for a boyfriend. I wouldn’t worry about her being mad at you, she’ll get over it.
Ok i recently founded out that my cousin had a boyfriend i showed my mom and i told her not to tell nobody and she actually told my grandma and she asked her and she came up to my mom and yelled at me and i am very mad at my mom atm what should i do
Re:You don’t state your cousins age but maybe that has something to do with your mom telling your grandma. Your cousin may be to young for a boyfriend. I wouldn’t worry about her being mad at you, she’ll get over it.
The problem isnt that i used to look up to her when i was little and i still do alittle now i am very offended b cuz someone i really look up to yelled at me =[
Belva Ferriter
gentle understanding asked:
My widowed mother-in-law’s estate is handled by my husband (she is 89 years old and has dementia). I’ve questioned him regarding who would handle her finances should he die before her and he gets very quiet and says he doesn’t know “how it all works.” Wouldn’t it make sense for me to be part of this trust?
Carmela Knavel
My widowed mother-in-law’s estate is handled by my husband (she is 89 years old and has dementia). I’ve questioned him regarding who would handle her finances should he die before her and he gets very quiet and says he doesn’t know “how it all works.” Wouldn’t it make sense for me to be part of this trust?
Carmela Knavel
asked:
My siblings and I are the members of a family trust set up by our late parents in the state of Utah. We all live in different states. After several years of functioning, I no longer trust the abilities of my siblings to make sensible decisions. I believe this could lead to legal liabilities that would impact all of us. This relates to an unoccupied house owned by the family trust that will soon have its homeowner’s insurance canceled.
My siblings and I are the members of a family trust set up by our late parents in the state of Utah. We all live in different states. After several years of functioning, I no longer trust the abilities of my siblings to make sensible decisions. I believe this could lead to legal liabilities that would impact all of us. This relates to an unoccupied house owned by the family trust that will soon have its homeowner’s insurance canceled.
I want to withdraw completely from the family trust, sever all related legal ties to its members & all property, money, etc,, so that I will not be held liable for their poor decisions. I don’t care that I’ll also no longer receive any share of any remaining inheritance.
What do I need to do to legally extricate myself from that trust & everything related to it?
Renaldo Cerio
asked:
I’m 13.
My family pretty much only cares about me for my academic success, and sometimes I think that they give me too much freedom. Of course, I enjoy it, maybe too much, and it doesn’t gets in the way of my studies, but sometimes I wish they would care more about me rather than only about my ‘genius’ side. It’s not much better on my side since I find them all boring and annoying, and feel unable to trust them my stuff.
George
I’m 13.
My family pretty much only cares about me for my academic success, and sometimes I think that they give me too much freedom. Of course, I enjoy it, maybe too much, and it doesn’t gets in the way of my studies, but sometimes I wish they would care more about me rather than only about my ‘genius’ side. It’s not much better on my side since I find them all boring and annoying, and feel unable to trust them my stuff.
George
ErikaxDLoL asked:
i broke my phone and now he cant trust me! i don’t get it. but when i try ed to ask him he got really pissed! iv even been good cause iv been really bitchy { sorry 4 my language! } towards my family! what should i do!
Marilu Sellinger
i broke my phone and now he cant trust me! i don’t get it. but when i try ed to ask him he got really pissed! iv even been good cause iv been really bitchy { sorry 4 my language! } towards my family! what should i do!
Marilu Sellinger
skycastle asked:
Do you get angry? Cry? Or something else?
Deb Tolly
Do you get angry? Cry? Or something else?
Deb Tolly
Victoria, micheal jackson’s girl asked:
so i was talking to my father the other day about how my brother is stealing and stuff, and im 15yrld, he said that hes gonna talk to grandmpa about taking my brother out of the family trust, and i asked him wat it was and he said its money that i get wen i turn 25 or get outta college and i really dont understand i mean is it like a wheel or something its confusing but ive been thinking about this alot and he also said thats not including the money im getting from him, so anybody wanna help me out with this?
Emmett Barrios
so i was talking to my father the other day about how my brother is stealing and stuff, and im 15yrld, he said that hes gonna talk to grandmpa about taking my brother out of the family trust, and i asked him wat it was and he said its money that i get wen i turn 25 or get outta college and i really dont understand i mean is it like a wheel or something its confusing but ive been thinking about this alot and he also said thats not including the money im getting from him, so anybody wanna help me out with this?
Emmett Barrios