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I do have a friend when it happens that people are saying she is my gf, we are so close to each other and my family likes her so much. Last time she came to me saying that she is going for a wedding her friend wedding, and ok. The nest day in the morning i see her off to the park i came back home, i waited for her call she did not and i try her number is off. I know she is not in the country, she lied to me and my family in general. Now i hated her and i can’t trust her anymore, i’m afraid to tell my family about it. r and i can’t trust her anymore, i’m afraid to tell my family about it.
Becki Vandaele
I am so sick of them and I just want to be by my self. Please. My sister is so evil! And my parents don’t understand! I wet through something that made me not trust any one! So i just want to leave from everything! And i can’t move out cause i’m too young! And i share a room with my sister so…
Allyson Burrough
i’d just like to know if there are people feeling the same way… the only family i trust is my brother i guess
Brian Schrodt
I’m wondering because im gonna finally get help and tell family and friends.
If one of your family members or friends said they needed help and got it and got curried. Would you still think of them the same as befor you knew they had a problem? Would you trust them? Would you always be disappointed? If you met someone who was a former addict would you look at them the same/treat them the same?
Blair Vanbruggen
My 11 year old little sister lives with my dad, and she hates it. She really wants to go live with my mom. She cries every single time she has to go back to my dad’s house when she comes up to stay with me and my mom on the weekends. My dad said that he was thinking about letting my sister come stay with us. But, he wants my opinion before he makes a decision on whether he’s going to let her stay with us or not. If I tell him that she’s better off here, he’ll let her come stay with us.
Here’s the problem:
My mother is extremely unstable. Our financial situation is very unstable. We went the entire summer without hot water, and had our electricity shut off a few times. Also, mild drug use goes on here. Nothing that I consider to be a ‘big deal’. My mom just smokes pot. But, my father doesn’t know about this, and he would really disapprove if he knew. I personally don’t see use of marijuana as a bad thing, but it would really upset my dad if he knew me or my sister was around that.
But, even with all these things, I still feel like my sister is better off with us.
The reason my sister hates living with my dad so much is because our stepmother is evil. She actually hates my sister, and she’s really mean to her. She’s abusive. And there is no talking to my dad about it, because he just lets it go on, and pretends like everything is ok. Everything over there is ‘stable’, though. The bills are paid, and there is no obvious drug use going on (my stepmom pops pills on the sly).
My dad wants to know if I think she’d be ok here. And I do. I really do think she’ll be better off here. Here, people love her. My mom isn’t stable, but we aren’t going to be homeless, or anything.
I don’t want my dad to stop trusting me if I tell him things would be better here for her. Because he wouldn’t see it that way.
She’s not abusive in any obvious way, really. She doesn’t hit her, or do anything that anybody outside the household would really notice. She’s verbally abusive. And she won’t take her to the doctor when she needs to go, and things like that. My sister almost went deaf once because she had an ear infection. It was just a normal ear infection at first, but it got so bad that blood was coming out of her ears. And nobody would take her the doctor. When I was a little kid and had to live there, I had scabies for almost an entire year. She just does crap like that.
@7- Did you fail to read the part about how my stepmother is abusive? Or the part where my little sister almost went deaf because nobody would take her to the doctor? Hmm… I think that’s a LOT worse for her than my mom smoking a little weed. ; )
Carmelita Steffan
I am coming from a family where my grandfather had 9 kids. I used to live with 5 of these families until last year when my dad came after me with a knife. That’s when I realized ( on top of the depression and anxiety that I was already feeling and feelings of a loser ) that it’s time to get out.
So i drove out 2,000 miles away. But recently I had to visit them because my dad was ill and without much time I realized it was the worst decision I could make.
The thing is that I have 10-12 cousins there who still live around my family. Trust me they are not good news. I mean , they are all nice people on the outside, But you can feel the tension. First off they don’t like me leaving and coming back without telling anyone. They expected me to be a loser all my life I think. Not that I was , but it’s just that they wanted me to be because I was the smartest of all while growing up.
The problem I am dealing with right now is that I have a girl in my life now. I love her to death. I want to marry her and have kids with her. I never felt like that with anyone before. Well. I did , But that didn’t turn out well.
But she understands me well, knows where I am coming from and all that. She supports me unconditionally. Send me an apple pie. 
. You can see why I want to make her mine.
But the problem is she knows my family and I don’t know how to approach her with the way I feel about my cousins and family.I really just want to register marry her and then later when I have enough money do all the traditional ceremonies. But I am afraid if I can do that….I don’t know where the fear is coming from..
I am completely different from my family..in that , I never had the animosity they had towards me , back at them in anyway, Which is why they were able to mess with my head for this long. But Now that I know what I want , I don’t care what they do . I am gonna show them what’s up..
Now about this girl, why do I feel weak when it comes to telling her that I don’t want my family involved in our marriage or anything we have. Is that possible? Am I afraid of something? What am I afraid of ? Please tell me?
Heidi Timmel
I’m going to graduate this December. I have accumulated enough work experience in order to obtain a decent paying job. I’ve been on my own for the past 5 years and I feel like I can take care of a house and a wife. I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now and we have discussed marriage and the responsibilities that would come along with it. She is 21 and has always lived at home since she goes to a local school. Her younger sister just moved out for college. The relationship between her father and I has been deteriorating for a while now due to his jealousy and over protectiveness. I get along with her mother fine though and she is very supportive of us living together since she feels she can trust me with her daughter. My girlfriend has confessed to me that the only thing preventing her from moving out is money. If she moved out she would still go to college and finish up her degree.
Has anyone had a similar situation to mine? I’m interested in hearing about the family drama
I know some people will say that we are too young and stuff like that but if I can provide for both of us, I don’t see a problem with it. I’m ready to settle down and have my own home. I have gotten all the college drunken nights out of my system.
We are planning on waiting a few months after I graduate so I have everything running smoothly in terms of savings, apartment, bills and all that.
We wouldn’t be jumping in without a budget and expenses figured out.
I would wait until I feel everything is in place before we took this any further.
Mistie Searcy
In december a family member tried to commit ******* while we were staying with them, this is an in-law of mine, and i’m still really furious about it, and hurt, She had said that night before bed “wake me up in the morning and I’ll make breakfast before y’all leave in the morning” (we had a long drive home) It was me and my husband, our 4 year old son, and then his mom and her boyfriend there. She had taken a WHOLE bottle of antidepressants WITH beer, before bed. I’m furious that she was expecting for my son to come say bye to her when she went to sleep expecting NOT to wake up…
How can I trust her again, or feel safe around her?
Additional
her reason was “no one listens” earlier in the night her and her boyfriend were having not a real argument but debating? on if her “antiques dinning table was real wood or laminate wood” which was silly. Also, I believe she is an Alcoholic, First thing she does in the morning is light up a cig and ***** open a beer. she drinks A LOT, ALWAYS.
Margarette Knouse
(before u keep reading, please dont laugh at the story u are about to read) ok, i have this problem .. im obese. im 14 and i weight 183 pounds & dont have that much clothes. now, people call me whale at school and my mom says she doesnt loke me because of my weight. my mom and my sister leave to go shopping and i have to stay home because they go to aero and all those other skinny ppols store. i sometimes cry cuz of this and nobody talks to me at school. people pass me by and say, oh theres the fatass, and i hold it in not to cry.i **** myself and see all these fit ppol and think that nobody wants a fat kid. my cuzins are all fit and im the only fat one, and im never included in anything because of my weight. my sisters boyfriend and his cuzin dont talk to me because im fat.
im tired of being fa, and this is my plan and i need ur help with this one. im going to eat only yogurt for two weeks straight and i need you to tell me if i will have noticable results. just write what u think
Kelley Mckinny
In my opinion its love, respect, and trust..
Is that to blunt or something though?
Jonathan Maditz