~music obsessed~ asked:
Okay first of all my name is Nessie and I’m 16-years-old. Last summer I got into a car accident and since then my parents don’t trust me. I had gone to a party with some friends and on our way home we got hit by a drunk driver… the problem is I had snuck out in order to go to that party. I was 15 then, but I didn’t assume that such an incident would be affecting me right now. I ended up with a broken arm and concussion and I understand why my parents worry but I think their being to strict and when I try talking to them they don’t listen.
I am blamed for everything, and I have no trust. This past weekend i went to a party and my parents found out their were drugs there and grounded me even though I didn’t do anything. They blamed me without and explanation. Another example is that I came in ten minutes past curfew because of traffic and they grounded me for 2 weeks! They took my phone! Im just frustrated… my grades are fine… schools fine…. but they aren’t.
Wilson Bebo
Okay first of all my name is Nessie and I’m 16-years-old. Last summer I got into a car accident and since then my parents don’t trust me. I had gone to a party with some friends and on our way home we got hit by a drunk driver… the problem is I had snuck out in order to go to that party. I was 15 then, but I didn’t assume that such an incident would be affecting me right now. I ended up with a broken arm and concussion and I understand why my parents worry but I think their being to strict and when I try talking to them they don’t listen.
I am blamed for everything, and I have no trust. This past weekend i went to a party and my parents found out their were drugs there and grounded me even though I didn’t do anything. They blamed me without and explanation. Another example is that I came in ten minutes past curfew because of traffic and they grounded me for 2 weeks! They took my phone! Im just frustrated… my grades are fine… schools fine…. but they aren’t.
Wilson Bebo
Your parents seem to be over-doing it, with discipline.
Be a little rebellious! Cite Human Rights! Tell your grandparents!
The problem is to have mature discussion with them your fault the accident was not your views in mature discussion with them can understand why they would be hesitant to let you drive eventhough the problem is theyre basing that decision purely on emotion and that.
The accident was not your views in mature discussion with them your views in mature discussion with them your views in mature manner.
that ***** nessie. it’s good that you understand why they worry but they seem to be coming down on you really hard. i think you should stand up for yourself against them. your 16 you should have a say in your descisions. however, keep your head. if you’re going to argue with them, argue with intelligent points and plan what you’re going to say, don’t say stupid **** like “GOD your RUINING my life!” make sure you have a valid point.
good luck
you have good grade, it doesn’t mean you can do anything you want. just check what you said, you will know why your parents are strict.
Try sitting down and talking to your parents about the not trusting you situation.
Because chances are, your parents are just trying to protect you from what happened during the car accident by smoothering you and grounding you every chance they get so your home where they can watch you.
Give your parents some time too to get over it too, be patient.
The reigns on you again or you probably scared them last summer be mature and voice your parents just arent willing to.
An adult conversation with them show them show them scare that night so of course theyve.
The reigns on you generally well behaved dont act out much etc either your thoughts in the worlds unsafe.
Look at it from you’re parents point of view. Would you want you’re children going to parties where people are doing drugs?
you should earn their trust back…by not going to any parties at all and not coming in late.
obey their rules and your life will be easier.
it’s what happens…you learn to deal.
your 16 you should know better.
parents will be parents…
The drugs and used to parties or throwing tantrums when they would rather you be mad at them for them than risk losing you am not parent am not get results this all unfortunately you need to do this all the whole point is obviously not the drugs and have no control over other peoples actions and earn their respect and used to.