Archive for February, 2010
asked: I have been kind of going out with this guy for a while now. The only reason my parents don’t trust him is because of his last name. His brother (who he is not close to and does not talk to) robbed my family a couple of years ago, and now my parents automatically think that anybody with his last name is out to get us. What should I do?
Jason Boruff
I cheated on her now we are talking an secretly dating but her sister and mom are still a little upset and dont know we are together. How do i help or get my girlfriend to talk to her mom and sister or how do i earn my trust back. I cant sleep,eat or anything without her because we cant be together in public and it **** because i sit home every weekend. What do i do????
Maisie Jolivette
Is it because we don’t trust ourselves? Or is it pure entitlement? Laziness? Child-like attitudes wanting a nanny government?
I want less government in my life. I’ll take responsibility for myself and my family, thank you.
Adriana Ruano
btw…so why was my other question removed???
Latonia Henkey
I have been in counceling for many years and things are getting worse. I do not trust myself and it causes me to make poor decisions. My Stepfather is the abuser. My whole family knows and has done nothing about it. They talk to him as if nothing has ever happened. I am a 37 year old single mother, and my poor decisions have angered my family, and they don’t understand why I keep messing up. I wan’t to heal so badly, but it’s obviously not happening, and I don’t know why. The only thing I can think of is the fact that my mother stayed with him, and that the rest of the family pretends that everything is okay. I know that if anyone sexually abused my children, no matter who did it will pay dearly. I just can’t understand why my mother stayed with him. It really bothers me! It really bothers me that my own biological father did absolutely nothing about it. To this day, my stepfather gets invited to family gatherings on my fathers side. I see this as morally wrong! Do you? Please help?
Magdalene Yoney
i have a fantastic family, they help me out and are usualu kind, hell their better them most peoples families. but yet i **** them. i know pwoplw with not very nice parents and yet they still love their parents. i on the other have hape both of mine. i really **** my father right no for lettime me live with him. iam 20 years old i should hbe on my own no living with him but he says its ok, every one says its ok but to me its an insult like saying iam too dumb to be on my own. another example is how people are close to their extended family, yes i love my grand parents and aunts and such but it would not hurt me the least to never see or speak to them. when i left for 5 months the only reasion i had any contact with any one in my family is cause they askem me too not cause i felt like it. any insight and yes i know my grammers bad.
Pierre Germano
I was wondering… A family had a mother that had an affair, but was able to work through things and kept the family together after the affair- would the son of the family have trust issues or will he probably be cheater/flirt type??
Yuko Mccook
Back in 1995 my Father who has already passed away bought a car from my Aunt’s Boyfriend at that time(they are not together know but they did had a child that year). When my Father passed away in 02″ he left the car for me to use for college and etc. Me, being in need of money and dumb at the time, I decided to sell the car in 2005. I sold the car to my Aunt’s Husband. At $500. its a cheap car, but its a memory of my dad to me. He only paid me $150 in total, and that was back in summer of 05. Know that im requesting my car back after more than a year of me waiting on him to pay me, he says the only way for me to get the car back is if I pay him what He paid me. Wat can I do, to get my dads car back that I know want to fix and build up again?
Willy Sadbury
I’m allowing my ex partner access to my baby, well this is his last chance as he’d been abusive etc in the past, of course all visits are going to be supervised etc.
His mother had told me my ex was skitzophrenic (sp?) so that i’d get an abortion, she thought if i thought my baby could have a chance of being skitzophrenic then i’d abort, of course i never did as i wouldn’t do that. She tried a few more tactics to get me to abort as the father didn’t want a baby, but me being against abortion i told her were to go.
When she realised i was keeping the baby she then tried to get me to do everything my ex’s way, e.g. giving the baby his surname, letting him choose the babys name, letting him be there at the birth, i told her that was not going to happen and it was all my decision, she then calmed herself down a bit.
His sister was sending me abusive text messages to me telling me that i was to grow up and stop being so immature, i was going to be a cramp mother etc and this was because i’m not giving my son my ex’s surname, which i think is way out of order saying that as it’s ultimately my choice.
How do i trust them around my baby after them doing things like that to me in the past? I want them to be in my sons life because i want my son to have another aunty, a grandma, a father and so on. The thing is, his sister lives in the same street as me but the mother lives in a different country, so she’d only see the baby a few times a year, which is fine by me, it’s actually better for me that way.
I’m just wondering how i trust them when my sons born, when i think about it i don’t even think i’d enjoy them holding my son as i just **** them so much but i want to be civil with them for my sons sake.
All their visits will be supervised and none of them will be alone with my baby so that’s taken a big weight off my shoulders.
I was never in court for this, we’re sorting it out ourselves, well trying too. Who said we made a baby right of the bat? I don’t believe in no *** before marriage, this is 2009 not 1909. We dated for 3 years and this side only came out when i fell pregnant. I never once said that i was not at fault for this mess, i know it’s half of my fault as it takes to conceive but i wouldn’t change it as my son means everything to me. Anyways, i don’t really care for what you’ve got to say, what’s done is done and stupid lecture from a random stranger isn’t going to bother me in the slightest, i can’t exactly turn back time and erase that part of my life, it’s done and i need to get on with it, which i’m doing.. Me thinks you need to get a life
Max Michalicek
why or why not?
Katrina