Archive for February, 2010
twubeam asked:
My mother passed away when I was young and she left me a trust fund with one of my aunts as trustee. I believe I am now of age when I am eligible to collect part of the fund, but how should I write my aunt (the trustee)? I want to be warm and nice, but I find it difficult to talk or write about money with family. My birthday was about two months ago and I was expecting her to approach me, but since she hasn’t and I live far away, how should I phrase an e-mail like this?
Amber Macknight
My mother passed away when I was young and she left me a trust fund with one of my aunts as trustee. I believe I am now of age when I am eligible to collect part of the fund, but how should I write my aunt (the trustee)? I want to be warm and nice, but I find it difficult to talk or write about money with family. My birthday was about two months ago and I was expecting her to approach me, but since she hasn’t and I live far away, how should I phrase an e-mail like this?
Amber Macknight
Arhick asked:
We seem to be caught in a catch 22 of needing to protect our selves from those who will cause harm(physical, financial, or emotional).It’s like a bad divorce that each person wants the advantage or upper hand. Everone around them gets hurt (family, friends, children) They can’t stop the flood of lies, decit, or doubt because of the harm it may cause them. Just stop, take a breath and look in the mirror and say,” What can I do to make this right.” and mean it inside, not just words. The trust is broken in the world and I just wonder what and how many is would take to stop. Just one? Sacrifice the moment it takes to help a person that needs it and don’t think of something in return. It doesn’t have to be money. You have already seen or know someone needs you right now. Try to help without worrying about guarding yourself. Bring back the trust in the world and everything else will fall into place. I’m doing it here. One person at a time. How many will it take to bring back trust?
Williemae Hoople
We seem to be caught in a catch 22 of needing to protect our selves from those who will cause harm(physical, financial, or emotional).It’s like a bad divorce that each person wants the advantage or upper hand. Everone around them gets hurt (family, friends, children) They can’t stop the flood of lies, decit, or doubt because of the harm it may cause them. Just stop, take a breath and look in the mirror and say,” What can I do to make this right.” and mean it inside, not just words. The trust is broken in the world and I just wonder what and how many is would take to stop. Just one? Sacrifice the moment it takes to help a person that needs it and don’t think of something in return. It doesn’t have to be money. You have already seen or know someone needs you right now. Try to help without worrying about guarding yourself. Bring back the trust in the world and everything else will fall into place. I’m doing it here. One person at a time. How many will it take to bring back trust?
Williemae Hoople
Help Truly Needed asked:
She didn’t understand what she was signing. The family that are on the trust don’t even come to see her just waiting for her to expire. I am her legal guardian and don’t have money to fix this. Currently, she is doing well but her affairs need to be properly put in order. I even have a piece of documentation from 1 of the trustees that states she didn’t know what she was doing. Another trustee sold one of her properties to her husband, which they now own. My aunt was taken advantage of & will be defrauded out of more property. What can I do to stop this and get her property deed changed back into her name?
Burt Mccarn
She didn’t understand what she was signing. The family that are on the trust don’t even come to see her just waiting for her to expire. I am her legal guardian and don’t have money to fix this. Currently, she is doing well but her affairs need to be properly put in order. I even have a piece of documentation from 1 of the trustees that states she didn’t know what she was doing. Another trustee sold one of her properties to her husband, which they now own. My aunt was taken advantage of & will be defrauded out of more property. What can I do to stop this and get her property deed changed back into her name?
Burt Mccarn
WeltReisende asked:
It is an old trust which makes it so the husband is the one running it but he has no rights to sell it and it gets passed to his grandson (somehow this makes it so no one ever has the control needed to sell). So what happens when he dies? Does his wife get kicked out as it is now under his son’s (from prev relationship, they have no children together) charge until the grandson is old enough to take charge? Or does she retain rights, as his spouse of 25 years, to live there and receive income from the land until she dies?
Ivy Hamman
It is an old trust which makes it so the husband is the one running it but he has no rights to sell it and it gets passed to his grandson (somehow this makes it so no one ever has the control needed to sell). So what happens when he dies? Does his wife get kicked out as it is now under his son’s (from prev relationship, they have no children together) charge until the grandson is old enough to take charge? Or does she retain rights, as his spouse of 25 years, to live there and receive income from the land until she dies?
Ivy Hamman
FrancescaMay asked:
It all started at school when i never had the best time and then things happened outside school time my brother went down for some time and people made my life hell at school for that. when i hit year 9 i rebelled really bad and messed up my school life, i started self harming i put my self into hospital countless times, i would be fighting a lot…..the stress that i put on my perants was stupid. I finally got myself back on track and some how got myself into a fairly good college and im doing my 2nd year now. but i still do things that i shouldn’t be doing and when my mum and dad find out really hurtsrts them, like i got piercings and they are totally against them, i started smoking after telling them im nthat stupidpid to do it…. and now im goiback downown hill at college with getting drunk and smoking weed, thhinterlandound that part out yet andintdont reawant themthem to…. i just want to take back all the stuff i have done and turn over a new leaf ever timetime i try something bad happens and it knocks me back and i do something stuthat hurtsurts people around me……. i have seen people my problemslems but it never helped….. i also have some serious anger problems that just come out off no where i can be sat in lectures writing and all off a sudden im shacking with rage…..
Abbie Wynkoop
It all started at school when i never had the best time and then things happened outside school time my brother went down for some time and people made my life hell at school for that. when i hit year 9 i rebelled really bad and messed up my school life, i started self harming i put my self into hospital countless times, i would be fighting a lot…..the stress that i put on my perants was stupid. I finally got myself back on track and some how got myself into a fairly good college and im doing my 2nd year now. but i still do things that i shouldn’t be doing and when my mum and dad find out really hurtsrts them, like i got piercings and they are totally against them, i started smoking after telling them im nthat stupidpid to do it…. and now im goiback downown hill at college with getting drunk and smoking weed, thhinterlandound that part out yet andintdont reawant themthem to…. i just want to take back all the stuff i have done and turn over a new leaf ever timetime i try something bad happens and it knocks me back and i do something stuthat hurtsurts people around me……. i have seen people my problemslems but it never helped….. i also have some serious anger problems that just come out off no where i can be sat in lectures writing and all off a sudden im shacking with rage…..
Abbie Wynkoop









