Archive for January, 2010
Little background first. I am 21 years old, I currently live on my own. but when this occurred I lived with my dad, older brother (27), and step mom. Also my step-sister would sometimes come to the house to do her laundry but she didn’t live there. she was 20. I was only there on a short period of time, during a transistion in between apartments.
I do NOT get along with my stepmom or step sister and dont have the best relationship with either my dad or older brother. My real mom passed away when i was 13 and I have felt like Ive had a very dysfunctional life since and family.
So the actual incident that occurred that has left me questioning is..
I had left my laptop on the living room table in our house, I went to the dentist and came back. my laptop was still there. I began playing with my dog and fell asleep at the opposite end of the house in my room. I woke up around 2 hrs later and discovered my laptop had been stolen. I am 100% positive i didnt misplace it, it was connected to power cable, wireless mouse and computer speakers. All of which were still located there.
Now, I am very positive no one would break it at 12:00pm mid afternoon into our house. we live in a great neighborhood, in the middle of a coldasack. I am sure i spelt that wrong. but anyways, my dog goes nuts if someone she doesnt know approaches the house from miles away.
Which made me think it was either my brother or stepmom, or very unlikely but its possible my stepsister came to do her laundry like she sometimes does and could have taken it. I ruled out my dad because he was at work.
My brother has been known to pawn things off to pay for bills like his car, my stepmom is a pathelogical liar, bipolar and hates me and my laptop for some reason, and my stepsister is pretty much the same and doesnt like me at all.
All 3 of them are very capable of stealing it, I am very disgusted and distraught over this. I am over the fact that my laptop is stolen, cause that is a materialistic item that I can replace. but I dont know who did it, I have a strong cause to believe it was one of those 3, but I cannot prove it.
I called the police, and filed a report, but thats probably not gunna help or solve anything.
What should I do? How do I approach family occasions with this in the back of my mind, any suggestions??/
Nu Lookabaugh
How do I get my dachshund to trust me. He is about a year old I just got him for my birthday in march about a 2 weeks ago. He was running the streets his family just left him. They must have beat him because he always thinks I am going to hit him and I want him to understand I am not going to do that. I am not sure if their is anyway to make him really trust me. NEED HELP PLAESE THANK YOU!!!! Tiffany
Jaimee Evens
no provision is written in will or trust regarding this
Katharine
I want to get a tattoo of my family crest but I don’t know where to look. I don’t really trust most places online and if I am getting something permanent like a tattoo I don’t want it to be wrong. Does anyone know where to go to look for their genealogy
I want to get a tattoo of my family crest but I don’t know where to look. I don’t really trust most places online and if I am getting something permanent like a tattoo I don’t want it to be wrong. Does anyone know where to go to look for their genealogy. My last name is Ziemba so it tends not to be on websites because it is uncommon.
Gail Deneen
Every relationship I’ve entered always ended with abandonment, be it a friend or family one.
As I just met an incredible person who sees me for who I truly am, I do not want to ***** this up. I’ve always had the fear of people leaving me interfere with my daily activities, and this is one thing I don’t want it to ***** up.
So, adoptees, and whoever…
How did you get past abandonment and trust issues in a relationship?
Marisa
okk,well it all started wen i went to one of the football games, and i went wit my bf.my mom didnt kno,nd a lot of her frends saw me nd him kissing, hugging, holding hands,nd stuff nd told my mom.well my mom got very mad, nd then she decided 2 order all my messages frum altell nd they were BAD messages….well especially the ones me nd my bf txtted eachother….well then she got very mad nd took my fone away, nd its already been 2 months nd she still doesnt wanna giv it bakk 2 me….well so then i have no idea wut 2 do….my family duznt like him cuz supposebly hes very rude,nd he duznt hav any manners nd all he wants is 2 get IT frum me nd blah blah blah…nd so wen i first got grounded, i alwayz snuck around wit him, but then my mom found out and then i hav no idea wat to do no becuz noone trusts me…i cant go hang anywhere with my frends alone, without being watched or an adult being withme cuz i am not trusted.wen im on myspace theyre always looking 2 see who am i IMing and/or talking 2.they always overlook wat im doing on the computer,always eavesdrop on my conversations wen im on the fone…i have absolutley no space or privacy anymore, or absolutely no CONFIDENCE and i just want everything the way it usd 2 be. i want my fonee bakk, my trust nd confidence frum my family,nd i want my priviledges nd my freedom…but i absolutely hav no idea how 2 gain all that bakk, i am only 14,incase yall r wundering, nd they found out i hav gotten drunk wit my frend b4.i regret lying 2 my mom about the guy, all the bad messages, the getting drunk part nd all of that, nd i just want it 2 be bakk 2 the way it usd 2 b, but i hav no idea how 2 accomplish this PLEASE HELP ME I AM BEGGING U TELL ME WAT 2 DO o, and please no rude or negative comments or opinions.i already hav enough bullcrud 2 deal with, so just write helping thoughts,not rude jerkish ones.thanks!!!!
o yea,nd i am so over this guy now.i usd 2 luv him alot, but all the truble he has caused me…now i am soooo over him. i just want my old life bakk!!!
o yea,nd folks,i have tried talkin 2 every1,but they are too harsh,,,they willnot listen at all, idk wat their problem iz…
Ellsworth Tremillo
My Wifes Dad is really making my life a living hell. He has lost my trust by being a horrible father and also a horrible grandfather. He is always hurting the people around him by lying and cheating and doing bad things. example: He has shown my 5 year old son pornographic photos of a woman that he was involed with as if to be braging about it. My son told me that he was saying oohhh yeah look at her ahh yeah! What the hell! Then a week passes and he talks his way out of it with my wife and the grandmother. Now a year later he does some stupid crap again and this time its worse! My wife is always crying and he really hurt everyone around him. He is acting like nothing has happened at all! No remorse! No apolagies! Nothing! And now because my wife and mother in law are so used to this they forgive him and give in to his mealy mouth exscuses! I can not be so forgiving and it is making things worse. I cannot trust this man to be alone with my children. What would u do? =(
Trinidad Clearo
I have an Auntie but I treated her just like a cousin(coz she’s not that old)we used to live together. Anyway, I used to trust her for everything, like what’s happening on my life/lovelife & family matter. Then I moved out (now residing in other country) but i tried to keep in touch with her. But one time, I heard that she made rumours about me which aren’t true. Im pretty sure & I really believe that all those rumours are all from her because she was the only person that I shared my stories & favours. She got all Stories Twisted. That made me a bad person. Also one time, I asked her favour. I used her bank acct to send money. When I phoned her she told me that her bank collected 500 pesos for service charge ( which is weird ‘coz I already paid for it before I sent the money to her. So all she needs to do is collect the money) later, I found out that banks in the Philippines normally charge you up to 50 pesos for bank to bank service.I might visit Phil this year.What should I do?
Modesto Shortle
I had a kitten as a child for 14 years until she passed away so i’m not completely out of the loop when it comes to cats. with saying that, it’s been about 13 years since i have had another cat and i just got a 10 week old kitten for my daughter for her birthday. we have had her for a little over a week and she still won’t let us pick her up and mostly hides under the couch, bed or dresser so we can’t get to her. she will let us pet her as long as we don’t pick her up. how long will it take for her to come around? is this normal for a new kitten? additionally she is having some accidents around the house. she is using the litter box, we have one upstairs and one down. how long does it usually take for them to stop having accidents. i never remember my old cat using the bathroom in the house other than the litter box at all, of course i know these things can happen with a new kitten tho. any advice? thanks
Roland Steczo
he cheats on me many times but he keeps asking for another chance which i dint belive him anymore and i want to move out..
Loretta Denenberg