Archive for June, 2009
This is NOT a living trust! My family Trust is trying to leverage a small condo but it is hard to find a lender who would lend to a trust. I am certain that it is possible though! The problem is that it is a small loan and the trust already owns some other parcels. This would be part of a 1031 exchange as well.
Every property in the trust is free and clear (two properties and one in escrow)this is the first time we are atttempting to get a loan for the trust. It would be approx 60K on about 200K (30% LTV)
Salley Salvant
I can’t.
HOW CAN I TRUST THEM NOW?
I am so worried.
Broderick Lopeman
First of all, I’m Asian, so its like the typical Strict @$$ Asian family.
Anyways, I **** my dad for signing me into this sh1t which I hate
“Qeej”
http://www.csuchico.edu/~cheinz/syllabi/asst001/spring99/xiong_n/the%20qeej.JPG
I told him countless times before that I didn’t want to join, and he’s being a ***** about it and starts forcing me. I told him 2-3 times I wanted to quit and he got mad stuff. Then my mom wouldn’t allow it because they used so much money. Its because they were being little bitches about the money and if I said I didnt want to play it I would get B-ed at, so of course I had to be a good little boy and say I still wanted to play it. It was a bad mistake on my part.
I can’t get along with anyone unless they DON’T talk to me. It’s kinda hard to understand I know. But yesterday I was about to hit my dad, but I knew what was right and didn’t do it -__-”
He was hitting me with a hanger, like he always does when I swear and say the F word and don’t do what he says. I really don’t mind the hitting part, but when he just talks to me is like -__- I also don’t understand why he keeps changing the topic when he knows he is wrong and I am right. I mean, I can be wrong at times too, but I stopped lying for a while to him when I mean what I mean and he says “I don’t care” or w/e.
I don’t know who else I can trust, because apparently my older brother is like my dad’s b***h, because he always tries to get into my business and **** me off a lot more, and he does a good job at it, he’s more annoying then my dad. I don’t trust my mom either, she’s always saying the same things, like “Your dad used to love this stuff and wanted to play it but he had no money because he was an only child blah blah blah” I DON’T FUCKING GIVE A ****. I know he likes it but why ask me? ***? I didn’t like this, he does, why doesn’t he do it? Oh thats right, because this will help my “future?” Yeah right, the “qeej” can get me to play at funerals. Please, I don’t give a damn about this. I have a life and he likes to ruin it apparently.
I know that when you are reading this I might seem like an ass, and its true, I am. I don’t really give either.
I don’t trust anyone in my family. My older brother, my dad, mom… They are the main three I “should” trust.
I also have a younger brother and sister, and older sister. They I kind of **** too.
There are times when I do get along with my family, but thats rare.
I also have my oldest brother. He lives in his own house with his wife and kids. He’s like the only one I trust, but the thing is I am not sure if I can trust him or not, because he’s probably loyal to my dad, but he is the smartest in our family. So yeah…
As for my cousins and relative, they are probably not people I would trust because my dad is close to them and they probably just try to tell me to play it for him and stuff. I won’t do it. I can trust my cousins around my age. 15-28? That might sound like a big gap, but eh, it is our generation? and as for school, I am not gonna start for this, I wouldn’t want to trust my councilor on these issues.
My dad usually talks sh1t right by us, complaining about us etc, and yeah I can live with that. I just want to move away and not see them.
And the “qeej” has ruined part of my life. Also I **** that my older brother gets into my business, about Traffic Safety, I had a 2.7 GPA or so, and my cheap *** father was being an *** about it and wouldn’t let me take it. I could of probably taken it if it wasn’t for my brother to start complaining.
The only one I trust is an online person I talk to about my problems, she is 33 I think…
~~~) Is there anyone else who I can trust and will be on MY SIDE? Because apparently its like “Me Against The World.”
- Tupac stuff, and yes I am a bad kid but I can be good at times as well. I don’t do drugs or anything. I go to school, show up and etc. Maybe not do so much of the work but yeah….
I forgot, every time they see me they always complain to me, and it gets very annoying. its like I want to be aloof from my family.
Like, why do you have to be so naughty? I dont say anything because if I do, more complaining will start…
As for “Qeej” I dont know how my dad is so slow, but we have been with 3 teachers already, he obviously is too damn stupid to realize that me and my younger brother who are in it **** IT.
I’ll write more if I can think of anything…
@ answer with smart answers, unlike this toty guy -_-
When I get asked to do a chore I will probably do it, but for Qeej? Hell no.
Plus when like, relatives that are like elders or uncles w/e ask me how its going, I dont even want to say, I just say something they would want to hear =__=
I’m not sure about best friend. I don’t tell them my problems, but here I do ^^” It’s more easier to say. I only told probably one of my friends about my family, and yeah he tells me kinda what everyone says.
and GOAT means
Greatest of all time
Bel -> But it is true, I do tell the truth a lot ^^
and Whisper, thanks but I just wont do it, and yes I know hes looking out for me, but this is something I don’t agree with him with. Before he put me in it, there was less yelling between us.
He always asks me the same questions and I am sick of it, I don’t even want to talk or look at him -___-”
When I dont reply he screams, ugh
Also, I could care less if I live under their roof. I want to start my own life as soon as possible. They are just getting in the way…
Chase Erschen
Does it matter? I feel patronized. Actually, I feel mistrust.
Carla Companion
m a law student in india where a gal is nt given much freedom.i’m among best students in my college and have never broken my parents trust.recently my father died who trusted me a lot.but now my mother n younger brother in some way or other restrict my activities.my brother doesnt like my going to courts for any work or to sit freely in my college especially with boys.i have never been involved or any such thing but still he doesnt trust me.its nt dat i alone sit with my guy friends bt we sit in a group.i have decided to quit studies as i dont want to give any tension to my mom as she’s ill for a long time.WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Vernon Sprinkles
I have a cousin i been throught so much with her , and i still kept holding on to her . No matter what happen Bad and goods .Now i feel like since she moved with her boyfriend all the plan we all had , she just threw them away . I feel like she use me , lying , don’t even care and making excuses .She told me we alywasy going to stick together no matter what happen , but everything change . I understand now , it teach me a lesson not to trust people all the way expect (God).
All i can tell her is thank you for everything .
Ammie Carolla
He groomed her for about 5 years.
Bret Southam
Im asian, 24 yrs old but now living in europe & working here.I have a house & my own car in Asia where my family is staying.Im in a relationship for 1 and a hald yr with a french guy.He is nice, sweet, romantic & i love him so much.I went to france and met his family.I stayed for 9 days with him in their house together with his dad.I met his sister and we had a nice family dinner.I thought everything was fine.His father told me that he accepted me as a part of the family.He even give us his wedding ring and his wife who passed away.That time i felt so nice cause i was thinking they accepted me already. After 9 days i went back to norway & i never met my bf’s sister again. We really didnt talk so much and also the dad cause hard to communicate they dont speak english so much and i dont speak french.
This past few days my bf told me that his family like me but they dont trust me cause they dont know me enough to trust me..
My questions are:
How to deal with my bf’s french family to make them understand that i love my bf and its not the question of money?
Does it really like this hard to deal with the french family?
Is it because im Asian thats why they dont trust me?
Do they think that im so low cause im Asian?
Does it really that hard to deal with french people?
I read an in some papers that French people mostly are hard to deal with, is it true?
Does anyone have same problems as mine?
What should i do to make them trust me?
Should i break up with my bf because of this problem?
I dont want him fight with his family, i dont want him to choose but now things make it hard for everyone of us….
Can anyone give me some advice pls…
I would really appreciate any advice from all of you guys..
thanks in advance 
Hsiu Motonaga
We are running a leasing business in our hometown in the philippines. my uncle during the settlement of my grandparent estate was appointed to be the Administrator until the deliveries of partition is completed. However, my uncle being the eldest among his other siblings and co-heirs, would act and decide things without asking for consent from the other heirs.
He is a CONTROL FREAK in almost everything. the leasing business started in 1993 and still operating to present time. The heirs executed a MOA on how to distribute funds among themselves… In short there are 2 items in their MOA that must be exercised or for implementation. taxes / and a certain 10% as a general generating common funds to be retained in the their depository bank for payments of real property taxes and bank charges… however as years went by, this 10% common funds is not been followed and him being one of the authorized signatory in the bank would disburse w/out any recording & financial reports for 13 years.
cont…
Now, he reverted or personally imposed that the 10% common funds would be alloted or treated as 10% Honorarium w/c he is the only one getting on top of his 1/6 share from the rental proceeds each month.
he doesn’t want to be questioned on his management and government towards the business and refuse to entertain any changes or amendments on their MOA.
Auditing of the funds is another thing he sights that he is obligated to or be forced into… Status Quo on his business management is what he would always expressed to his younger co-heirs… The estate of my grandparent is been settled in 2003 and assumed that his administratorship Title is been long ceased due to the settlement of the estate…
He continues to govern as if he is still in power over all of us… Is he legally entitled to honorariums? He is the one determining what amount he can get as honorarium for himself… What can I do to make him produce documents and be subjected to audit those accounts.
Bruno Dadisman
What was your experience? I am trying to save money and am looking into legal zoom. Yet, some people, who have more money than I do, say, get a lawyer. Any online/lawyer experiences would be helpful. Thanks!
Vella Dixson