Archive for June, 2009
I am interested in setting up a trust for my spouse and future family. If something should ever happen to my life (death); I want my Spouse and future Children protected from Probate and other taxes. And Also I want the family to benefit from the trust or family assets or wealth for a very long time or several generations.
Niki Veater
If you’ve seen my last two questions about mom & the ex-con you know that my family is a little cracked. I actually trust them more than my husband’s family though. We live pretty close to one of his cousins but no longer spend much time with them because his wife may have devoloped a drug problem and his s-i-l is always around and she definitely has one. We have made any close friends here in the last 1 1/2 years. I don’t even know how to make friends close enough that I would trust them with my kids. I dread the day my daughter asks to go to a sleepover. Anybody else dealing with crap like this?
Celena Ciprian
I am a beneficiary of the trust if the trustee fails or refuses to account to the beneficiary what can the beneficiary do and can the beneficiary do this without a lawyer.Can the trustee be made to account to a court just who over see’s that a trustee does what he’s duty is to the beneficiary.
Carrie
My family back when I was a kid, elementary and middle school age, withheld a lot of information from me that could have changed my life and 1 thing did. The main thing was they didn’t tell me that my mom had cancer, they said they didn’t tell me to protect me cause I was in middle school, but I still feel as though I should have known the truth. The person who told me was my mom’s best friend, and she only told me after it had been declared terminal. ( lived w/ g’parents)By that time I didn’t have the time to adjust and say a proper goodbye before she passed away. I was so angry for such a long time and did get counseling for it. The other thing is, they kept half my family secret from me. My parents split when I was a baby and my dad wasn’t in my life, I didn’t know for a long time that he’d been married before my mom and I had an older sis and bro, or that he remarried again and I had a younger bro. My family knew it tho, and again didn’t tell me. Now it’s hard for me to trust them
I honestly do feel bad for not fully trusting my family and questioning everything they tell me, yet I just can’t bring myself to. I’m 25 now and most of this happened between the ages of 11-16. I know it would most likely be best to just let it go, and accept they were trying to do what they thought was in my best interest, but I just can’t. They kept some really serious stuff from me. things I would have liked to have known about and taken the time to adjust to. Please tell me, how can I give them the trust I so want to again? Does any of this make sense at all? Help?!
Bianca Briere
I have tons of friends who are seniors now and I have known them for like ever and I’m now a sophomore but my parents won’t even let me go to my friends house that are my age unless they know them, and it is driving me insaine, they also always have to talk to my friends parents to make sure that it is ok for me to come over , yeah i know lame , don’t you think if it wasn’t ok , I wouldn’t go over there ?
Calista Guyon
The ex-wife is not helping with the kids, she is running from the law, She stole my identity by giving my personal info to her boyfriend. The boyfriend used it when he went to jail and got bailed out, speeding tickets.She bailed him out saying he was me.Her family helps her out by giving her money, Knew she was cheating on me long before we split up. Her family does everything for my daughter and very little for my son. Like take her for shopping, stay overs. One actually told me they do for my daughter so it frees up my money to do for my son.
Her father come by yesterday and said her boyfriend left her and she wants to start doing right. He asked me to drop all charges so she can. I told him “Hell No!” What she has done is unforgivable.
I am so tied of her and her families stuff, I can’t trust anything they say and I don’t want my kids around them because of it. Of course my daughter does not understand this now. She will in the future. What would you do? Try to rebuild a trust?
My mother-in-law only wants to take my daughter for the summer coming up and said they will take my son for a week. I personally don’t want my kids going for more than a weekend.
Right now, I have stopped their visitation with the kids. due to the recent events
the kids have perfect attendance in school and are honor students. I also have them in sports where I have gotten involved with coaching them.
Angella Kilmer
I have been with my boyfriend/ fiance for 18 months now. We have a few issue that are MAJOR. I want to deal with them and fix them before we move ahead—so we can move ahead so to speak. I want to overcome these trust issues I have with him and his family means to absolute world to him. They do not like me and I do not like them. I want to go to couseling but he says if we go to couseling before were even married–We have failed. That that should mean we shouldn’t even be getting married if we need help already. I think it will help us. I think most couples should go to couseling before they marry. He just says “the boat is shunk before it has even left the harbour”. I cannot get through to him with “our issue” and I know we need a mediator. He wants me to move to the state AND city where ALL his family lives. I can’t even stand it there for more than a few hours when we do visit. His mother is the head of the family and CONTROLS everything and everyone. My fiance is alot older then me he’s 46 and I cannot explain to him w/out getting into a huge fight that why can’t we have our own life and have “our own family”? He gets irate and on the defense….I need help………..
Glenn Grich









