Archive for April, 2009
Ashiya asked:
If a person did not get the proper love and care they needed from their parents, how can he/she learn to trust anyone else to love them? Parent’s love is unconditional, but not every parent is able to express the way they should, how does one overcome this and learn to allow others to love them?
Hmmm, yes it is a very difficult question, I think I should have posted in philosophy section, lol…but I will appreciate all answers received, thanks!
Shasta Hutnak
If a person did not get the proper love and care they needed from their parents, how can he/she learn to trust anyone else to love them? Parent’s love is unconditional, but not every parent is able to express the way they should, how does one overcome this and learn to allow others to love them?
Hmmm, yes it is a very difficult question, I think I should have posted in philosophy section, lol…but I will appreciate all answers received, thanks!
Shasta Hutnak
Rodel M asked:
im trying hard to trust people around me, even though i tell them i trust them, but still there is fear inside me, but i trust my family a little, but when it comes to critical things i dont. i hope u get what i mean, sorry if my grammar is bad. please tell me why i am like this
Mason Limber
im trying hard to trust people around me, even though i tell them i trust them, but still there is fear inside me, but i trust my family a little, but when it comes to critical things i dont. i hope u get what i mean, sorry if my grammar is bad. please tell me why i am like this
Mason Limber
sicuro20x asked:
OK so here my problem im having im 18 and i live with my friend i been living with him since i was 16.Hes mom is great they say im part of there family but there’s some trust problems going on at the moment, i had my
License since November 08′ and since then i did no driving she said to me that she dont want me driving a 50,000$ mini van (she said it in a nice way…) and i understood that but we have another car i can use but i dont know what other excusses she will come up with…How can i proof im trust worthy to them? and im not gonna crash
Leeanne Cajucom
OK so here my problem im having im 18 and i live with my friend i been living with him since i was 16.Hes mom is great they say im part of there family but there’s some trust problems going on at the moment, i had my
License since November 08′ and since then i did no driving she said to me that she dont want me driving a 50,000$ mini van (she said it in a nice way…) and i understood that but we have another car i can use but i dont know what other excusses she will come up with…How can i proof im trust worthy to them? and im not gonna crash
Leeanne Cajucom
Eric F asked:
my parents got a divorce when i was . shortley after my dad told me that he had a girlfriend, and thengot engaged and married her. i found out a few years ago that he cheated on my mom with this woman and left us for her. she has two kids. i stopped seeing my dad about a year into the divorce 6 years ago, but since he’s married this woman she has forbidden my sister to come over and see him and has harassed my mom by calling her and telling her she wasnt “woman enough to keep my dad”. but she emails me and talks to me all nicely acting like i should have nothing against her, and trying to help me…even though my dad and i dont get along and on the rare ocassion we do talk we always end up fighting. whats her motive? should i trust her? she’s also lied to me repeatedly, and tells me she can intorduce me to celebs. just to get me to like her. i have tried cuttin her out, but she keeps emailing me and trying to reach out.why?
Claire
my parents got a divorce when i was . shortley after my dad told me that he had a girlfriend, and thengot engaged and married her. i found out a few years ago that he cheated on my mom with this woman and left us for her. she has two kids. i stopped seeing my dad about a year into the divorce 6 years ago, but since he’s married this woman she has forbidden my sister to come over and see him and has harassed my mom by calling her and telling her she wasnt “woman enough to keep my dad”. but she emails me and talks to me all nicely acting like i should have nothing against her, and trying to help me…even though my dad and i dont get along and on the rare ocassion we do talk we always end up fighting. whats her motive? should i trust her? she’s also lied to me repeatedly, and tells me she can intorduce me to celebs. just to get me to like her. i have tried cuttin her out, but she keeps emailing me and trying to reach out.why?
Claire
hollamiss69 asked:
I had sex, drank and was your typical “rebellious” teenager, and now I am engaged, I am more mature and understanding (and religious) that I was before. My family is a opinonated, string willed and very christian family (my grandpa is a pastor!) How do I prove to them I have legitiemately changed and should have their trust? Becuase they dont want to seem to give me the benefit of the doubt!
Tyson Warney
I had sex, drank and was your typical “rebellious” teenager, and now I am engaged, I am more mature and understanding (and religious) that I was before. My family is a opinonated, string willed and very christian family (my grandpa is a pastor!) How do I prove to them I have legitiemately changed and should have their trust? Becuase they dont want to seem to give me the benefit of the doubt!
Tyson Warney
This is NOT the real slim shady asked:
Okay, my mom yelled at me for lying to her about this boy i DID like but he was mean to me. But i didn’t believe her, but she was right. I posted a survey last night on myspace and his sister stalks me , well my older sister decides to go on my myspace and looks at all my messages i didn’t want my family finding out about. now i feel depressed and my mom expects me to trust her… but she says she cant trust me… she also expects me to come talk to my family. but it’s hard for me to trust them when you know they’ll stab you in the back…. help me ….
i liked him… and i agree with my friends… i can trust my friends and my AVID teacher… but apparently im black & white becuse i dont see the so called “bad parts” of today’s world..
Tyson Mondor
Okay, my mom yelled at me for lying to her about this boy i DID like but he was mean to me. But i didn’t believe her, but she was right. I posted a survey last night on myspace and his sister stalks me , well my older sister decides to go on my myspace and looks at all my messages i didn’t want my family finding out about. now i feel depressed and my mom expects me to trust her… but she says she cant trust me… she also expects me to come talk to my family. but it’s hard for me to trust them when you know they’ll stab you in the back…. help me ….
i liked him… and i agree with my friends… i can trust my friends and my AVID teacher… but apparently im black & white becuse i dont see the so called “bad parts” of today’s world..
Tyson Mondor









