Family Trust-Irrevocable Family Trust

Nice one asked:


I was wondering… A family had a mother that had an affair, but was able to work through things and kept the family together after the affair- would the son of the family have trust issues or will he probably be cheater/flirt type??

Yuko Mccook

insanity20mike asked:


Back in 1995 my Father who has already passed away bought a car from my Aunt’s Boyfriend at that time(they are not together know but they did had a child that year). When my Father passed away in 02″ he left the car for me to use for college and etc. Me, being in need of money and dumb at the time, I decided to sell the car in 2005. I sold the car to my Aunt’s Husband. At $500. its a cheap car, but its a memory of my dad to me. He only paid me $150 in total, and that was back in summer of 05. Know that im requesting my car back after more than a year of me waiting on him to pay me, he says the only way for me to get the car back is if I pay him what He paid me. Wat can I do, to get my dads car back that I know want to fix and build up again?

Willy Sadbury

Louise - Mummy to a prince! asked:


I’m allowing my ex partner access to my baby, well this is his last chance as he’d been abusive etc in the past, of course all visits are going to be supervised etc.

His mother had told me my ex was skitzophrenic (sp?) so that i’d get an abortion, she thought if i thought my baby could have a chance of being skitzophrenic then i’d abort, of course i never did as i wouldn’t do that. She tried a few more tactics to get me to abort as the father didn’t want a baby, but me being against abortion i told her were to go.

When she realised i was keeping the baby she then tried to get me to do everything my ex’s way, e.g. giving the baby his surname, letting him choose the babys name, letting him be there at the birth, i told her that was not going to happen and it was all my decision, she then calmed herself down a bit.

His sister was sending me abusive text messages to me telling me that i was to grow up and stop being so immature, i was going to be a cramp mother etc and this was because i’m not giving my son my ex’s surname, which i think is way out of order saying that as it’s ultimately my choice.

How do i trust them around my baby after them doing things like that to me in the past? I want them to be in my sons life because i want my son to have another aunty, a grandma, a father and so on. The thing is, his sister lives in the same street as me but the mother lives in a different country, so she’d only see the baby a few times a year, which is fine by me, it’s actually better for me that way.

I’m just wondering how i trust them when my sons born, when i think about it i don’t even think i’d enjoy them holding my son as i just **** them so much but i want to be civil with them for my sons sake.

All their visits will be supervised and none of them will be alone with my baby so that’s taken a big weight off my shoulders.
I was never in court for this, we’re sorting it out ourselves, well trying too. Who said we made a baby right of the bat? I don’t believe in no *** before marriage, this is 2009 not 1909. We dated for 3 years and this side only came out when i fell pregnant. I never once said that i was not at fault for this mess, i know it’s half of my fault as it takes to conceive but i wouldn’t change it as my son means everything to me. Anyways, i don’t really care for what you’ve got to say, what’s done is done and stupid lecture from a random stranger isn’t going to bother me in the slightest, i can’t exactly turn back time and erase that part of my life, it’s done and i need to get on with it, which i’m doing.. Me thinks you need to get a life

Max Michalicek

Crystal asked:


why or why not?

Katrina

Buke asked:


My Wifes Dad is really making my life a living hell. He has lost my trust by being a horrible father and also a horrible grandfather. He is always hurting the people around him by lying and cheating and doing bad things. example: He has shown my 5 year old son pornographic photos of a woman that he was involed with as if to be braging about it. My son told me that he was saying oohhh yeah look at her ahh yeah! What the hell! Then a week passes and he talks his way out of it with my wife and the grandmother. Now a year later he does some stupid crap again and this time its worse! My wife is always crying and he really hurt everyone around him. He is acting like nothing has happened at all! No remorse! No apolagies! Nothing! And now because my wife and mother in law are so used to this they forgive him and give in to his mealy mouth exscuses! I can not be so forgiving and it is making things worse. I cannot trust this man to be alone with my children. What would u do? =(

Leon Pehl

cneron asked:


I am not talking about inheritance tax of the individual trust members. I understand that the trust itself is taxed upon the sale price. I am curious what the percentage is.

Kyle Bargar

ballin asked:


I would not call my self player but i got a lot of game and I always get almost any girl I want and date more than 1 girl at once .I’m 19 I live with my parents ,my family is close with my uncles ,grandparents and like my entire family is very close to each other.OK my problem is I never tell anything to anyone in my family,but every time they find out girls I’m dating they start talking shyt
saying this and that ,that she is has this problem never satisfied ,but I always have very cute girls with me ,they know something and then everyone knows they always try to make me feel bad ,they never think they are good girls, they think everyone is ***** or they have diseases on them some fck up **** like that. That’s why I always try to keep it down low.They say stop parting drinking and all that **** ,I’m one of those people that try to have fun because life is too short to sit home and die .I do anything i want ,they want me to relax find a nice girl and settle down,I have big fight with them all the time.They made my old cousin to get married at age of 21 ,and now they trying to make my life miserable of telling me to find someone and settle down.So how can I change this people’s minds that they can’t control my life im a do what i want to do.My dad says as long as you live in my house u got to go with my rules.I cant move out now becasue I can’t now.So what should i do how to tell this people stop trying to say shyt about every girl i meet and stop controlling my fcfking life
I’m tired of this shyt.they say they care about me they don’t want me to get any transmitted diseases or do drugs,i only smoke weed n alcohol n *** always with condoms .
help please
i have job
but i cant save money i like to spent
thats my bigazzzzz problem

Hope Khounborine

Keepin_it_Real asked:


My grandmother told my parents many years ago that I was the beneficiary of her trust fund. We do not have a copy of her will. It was not filed with the clerk of the court. Her nephew has the will and says the will is worded so that it would be almost impossible to have access to the trust. ??? What steps would you take to try to obtain the will? I know who her attorneys were. I know the name of the trust. Thanks for any guidance or direction you can provide me.

Craig Similien

Riki asked:


Little background first. I am 21 years old, I currently live on my own. but when this occurred I lived with my dad, older brother (27), and step mom. Also my step-sister would sometimes come to the house to do her laundry but she didn’t live there. she was 20. I was only there on a short period of time, during a transistion in between apartments.

I do NOT get along with my stepmom or step sister and dont have the best relationship with either my dad or older brother. My real mom passed away when i was 13 and I have felt like Ive had a very dysfunctional life since and family.

So the actual incident that occurred that has left me questioning is..

I had left my laptop on the living room table in our house, I went to the dentist and came back. my laptop was still there. I began playing with my dog and fell asleep at the opposite end of the house in my room. I woke up around 2 hrs later and discovered my laptop had been stolen. I am 100% positive i didnt misplace it, it was connected to power cable, wireless mouse and computer speakers. All of which were still located there.

Now, I am very positive no one would break it at 12:00pm mid afternoon into our house. we live in a great neighborhood, in the middle of a coldasack. I am sure i spelt that wrong. but anyways, my dog goes nuts if someone she doesnt know approaches the house from miles away.

Which made me think it was either my brother or stepmom, or very unlikely but its possible my stepsister came to do her laundry like she sometimes does and could have taken it. I ruled out my dad because he was at work.

My brother has been known to pawn things off to pay for bills like his car, my stepmom is a pathelogical liar, bipolar and hates me and my laptop for some reason, and my stepsister is pretty much the same and doesnt like me at all.

All 3 of them are very capable of stealing it, I am very disgusted and distraught over this. I am over the fact that my laptop is stolen, cause that is a materialistic item that I can replace. but I dont know who did it, I have a strong cause to believe it was one of those 3, but I cannot prove it.

I called the police, and filed a report, but thats probably not gunna help or solve anything.

What should I do? How do I approach family occasions with this in the back of my mind, any suggestions??/

Nu Lookabaugh

Tiffany asked:


How do I get my dachshund to trust me. He is about a year old I just got him for my birthday in march about a 2 weeks ago. He was running the streets his family just left him. They must have beat him because he always thinks I am going to hit him and I want him to understand I am not going to do that. I am not sure if their is anyway to make him really trust me. NEED HELP PLAESE THANK YOU!!!! Tiffany

Jaimee Evens